No more turning away…
by Karthik on Dec.12, 2008, under Concerts, human civilizations, Human race, Quiz
Lately I have been asked by a lot of my friends to get married and “Settle down” in life. Some excerpts…
“Karthik, you need to get married. I’m serious”
“Karthik, it’s high time you got married. Couple’ a years and you’ll have a beautiful kid”
“Dude, you are the only one left. Better get married soon.”
So I did this research to back up some of my reasons to not get married and not have kids. I’ve had this tag line for more than 2 years now – “Save the earth – No more kids for 10 years”. I have successfully passed 2 years. So have some people who I know.
Now, let me tell you the importance of that tag line. I wrote this first thinking… may be it will get you to think. May be it will get you to join this league. May be it will do good to some one.
This is going to be a little long, but please read on.
Reason 1: For the greater good!
Let me explain this with statistics to support my statements.
As of 2007, the average birth rate for the whole world was 20.3 per year per 1000 total population, which for the world population of 6.5 billion (65,000,000,000), comes to 134 million babies per year. This means we humans alone bring in 134,000,000 babies every year. Remember, there are other species that require space too.
And the cost involved in supporting a human being with an average life span is Rs.25,00,000 or USD$50,000. But lets take a very conservative figure and only calculate the cost incurred in a human living for 25 year – Rs.15,00,000/- or USD$30,000 (Most of the cost involved for a human being is in the 1st 25 years, as that covers education, higher food consumption, needs another human’s support at least until 15 years on an average and lot of other stuff).
And the number of people who die every year is only 9.6 per 1000 of world population. Which means only around 62 million is dying. That is less than half of the number of humans born every year. At this rate, first we will end up killing (knowing / unknowingly) all the other species for our survival. Then fight against each other for the survival of the fittest.
Trust me, that way, future is very bleak and as a superior species (as far as we know) we end up achieving nothing.
And having got the opportunity to be the superior species on earth and not utilizing our powers to protect it is unforgivable.
Now lets see, what people interested in babies can do. There are about 100 million orphans in this world (believe it or not) who need care, education, daily food, shelter …a life!
If every adult in this world go by this rule of not having a kid for just 1 year and instead will adopt (literally or virtually) just 1 kid and give him/her a life, the whole world will be… Well, Utopia! (I mean a perfect place. Not quite literally.)
Nowadays you can adopt a kid without even being with him/her, if you like it that way.
But that is too much to expect and literally impractical. However, if we have this as a mission or a goal to support 1 kid that needs us and can make this sacrifice, you will not only have a kid, but will be a Savior! And I said 10 years because; only our generation has to do this. The next one will learn from it.
You can be a savior of this World!
Reason 2: We’ve made this world sick in many ways and it has to be cured. “In fact, I would go as far to say, what this world really needs is a Doctor”. The Doctor would never like it the way it is right now. Every species, every living thing, every life, is as big a miracle as you are!
Reason 3: I prefer a wet T-shirt over a wet diaper any day
To conclude, I’m not asking all of you to not get married. Go ahead and get married if that’s what you like, but think about saving a kid rather than having one. And being married is a pain anyway
This is the way I like it and I would appreciate if you don’t force or keep telling people who are single and like it that way to marry and follow the road to doom!
P.S: Sorry if the last line sounds too rude, as long as you get the point, I’m happy







December 13th, 2008 on 4:11 pm
Ooops!! A rant!!
December 14th, 2008 on 10:17 am
I don’t rant. Its an appeal.
December 15th, 2008 on 12:08 am
I’m going to send all my inquisitive aunts a link to your post
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I dont know any better way to say this than.. “my thoughts exactly
December 15th, 2008 on 9:41 am
Thank you, Marina. That makes us 2 people who agree so far! I’m really glad.
December 25th, 2008 on 7:46 am
hahaha…. nice points man… specially i agree wid the 1st reason… .
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December 25th, 2008 on 10:11 am
Hi Shashi, thanks. I’m glad I visibly reached at least two. I think I need to do more of these. and by the way, you can book your own domain from sites like godaddy.
December 29th, 2008 on 11:56 am
Blah Blah Blah………..let me see how long you last!!!!!!!!
December 29th, 2008 on 11:57 am
You will, sheeba… You will.
December 29th, 2008 on 12:16 pm
I agree !! but everyone have to get married !! we cant lead our life alone ull get bored !! i m sure ull get married very soon
All the best
December 29th, 2008 on 12:45 pm
Ha ha.. Vara, nope. Being alone is not boring. Its just how you perceive it. I live alone and I’m sure I can do that for rest of my life.
And people get bored when they have nothing to do. As long as you have a goal and work towards it, I don’t see how you’ll get bored. I’m sure if Kalam thought it would be boring, we wouldn’t have got satellites.
Anyway, if you are getting married, consider adopting kids than have one. And all the best for a wonderful life!
January 2nd, 2009 on 7:47 pm
hmmm no kids for 10 years…… have you ever thought of the consequences if there are no kids on earth. eco balance will go haywire
January 2nd, 2009 on 8:27 pm
Nafisa darling… Its just for 10 years… just our generation. You can have kids after that. And till then there are 100 million orphans who need help. So Earth and eco system will be in perfect balance.
January 18th, 2009 on 4:59 am
Dude, I love this post. Respect!
February 2nd, 2009 on 4:12 pm
Well, You really sound like a statistical person.
The very word ‘Marriage’ made you search for lot of statistics and facts. haha..
February 2nd, 2009 on 5:33 pm
No Amit, I’m far away from Statistics. I just did that to make people understand. But the very word Marriage sickens me and that part is true.
And as I have posted, people getting married is not the primary issue. The kids they have is the problem. Image how better the world would be if the orphans are given a chance they deserve…
February 2nd, 2009 on 5:53 pm
very ‘earthly’ thought. I appreciate it.
February 2nd, 2009 on 5:57 pm
Thanks dude.
April 8th, 2009 on 8:36 pm
I wish there were more guys like you! Wonderful thinking .
Quoting Vara
I agree !! but everyone have to get married !! we cant lead our life alone ull get bored !!
Marriage is more boring than being single
Anyways, what’s the need to marry? Its made by humans to create “stability” aka boredom!
April 9th, 2009 on 12:19 pm
Nice Nicky. Really hard to find a someone who thinks like you. Keep up and all the best.
April 13th, 2009 on 4:41 pm
Liked the post and thoughts behind it
All the best!
April 13th, 2009 on 7:37 pm
Thanks
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